
Week 15 – #PositivelyStressed
For those of you following the series, you’ve likely noticed the hashtags I use – especially #BeTheOne.
#BeTheOne is a the national initiative by The American Legion, a cause that’s very close to my heart…


#Positively Stressed - Week 13
In the Navy we had a saying, “A complaining sailor is a happy sailor.” While it may sound counterintuitive, there is a deeper meaning behind this concept about mental health and stress management in any environment – workplace or otherwise.

#Positively Stressed - Week 12
As an attorney, I often hear plaintiffs in auto accident cases describe in the moments after the crash that they were “in shock”. While some might assume that this refers simply to surprise, as attorneys, we follow up with a crucial question: “What do you mean by ‘in shock’?”

#Positively Stressed - Week 11
Ever had #Stress from the sheer size or volume of a task? Take building a nuclear-powered aircraft carrier



#PositivelyStressed - Week 7
This week, let's dive into two powerful mindfulness techniques: #Mantras and #PositiveAffirmations. While both aim to ground us, they serve different purposes and have unique approaches to stress management.
I have a slightly different take on #Mantras than most people.

#Positively Stressed - Week 6
This week, people and organizations around the world observed #WorldCancerDay, embracing the theme "United by Unique." But what does this truly mean?
Hunter “Patch” Adams once said, “You treat a disease, you win, you lose. You treat a person, I guarantee you, you’ll win, no matter the outcome.” This quote resonates deeply when we think about how stress affects those facing life-changing diagnoses.

#Positively Stressed - Week 4
I told my family that I was going to start writing about stress and wanted to hear their thoughts. My mother told me, “Just make sure not to send us back to Prohibition.” I promised her that would not be my intent, but that I would need to talk about alcohol consumption and its complicated relationship with stress.

#Positively Stressed - Week 3
So how do you teach your brain what a “stressor stimulus” is and what it is not?
One way to teach your brain what is not a stressor stimulus is to use what are called “grounding techniques”.


#Positively Stressed - Week 1
I am an attorney, non-combat disabled veteran, cancer survivor, husband, girl-dad, dog-dad, and community board member.
I live with significant anxiety and sometimes depression about most of those aspects of my life. I’ve been in mental health counseling for about half my life – and I still have problems.
Why am I saying all of this?